A Family Out Of Control; A Prophet Under God’s Control

I am aware that the common perception is that pastors are the ones who fail in their marriages.  The stories of pastors who are unfaithful seem to be the stuff of legend, but the truth is that a pastor’s wife is every bit as likely to desert the marriage as is any pastor.  Is it possible that modern churches really don’t have a clue what is meant when Paul writes that a man must “manage his own family?”